You may not believe it if I say I found
the way from the airport to New Haven was much like the one of the suburban
area of my home city, Changsha in China., "I just don't feel out of China
yet", as one of the lovely ladies among us said.
Life flies and we have been in America for
four endeared days so far. Freedom and equality are the two things that hold my
deepest impression:
Freedom
I think American people are born free,
literally. For one thing, they can be borne of any kinds: black; white;
colored; Asian origin; European origin; Jewish; Christian......
While I was in the bus to Yale, I loved to
peep into the cars passing by: the people diversity was conspicuous. You never
know what comes next so that you expect some gorgeous features to stir your
heart, and you always get it.
In America, it seems you can show up in
any way. Nobody really cares. This makes conscious people like me feel better.
I am no longer worried while in my low heels, and concerned less about my
skinny facial feature. If once I wear the wrong thing, I worry for 1 habitual
minute and then learn to let it go because I know nobody here really cares.
Equality
Sometimes equality may come shockingly as
the opposite of freedom. For example, if freedom of running fast as it is
supposed to do. In America, most of us 15 "family" members are just
touched by the sweet and softness of the drivers who slowed their vehicles for
us, especially when sometimes it was obvious we were the trouble makers. The
strong and powerful steel just consents to the flesh, and live in harmonious
equality.
Another thing is about the homeless people
in the town. We ran into them frequently in some parts of New Haven. I don't
know them all but my impression is that they are not as humble-felt as their
counterpart in China. They may look at you into the eyes, smiling, saying,
"Be happy and just smile" in the early morning when two of us were
exploring the mystery of the early city. They may also kindly show you the way
before asking for some change, which was hard to turn down.
The last but not at all the least is the
professors here. In my impression so far, Americans are generally
friendly and kind. The professor are extremely cordial. They do not possess the
authority air as Chinese professors traditionally do. The dean spoke at the
opening ceremony and the students may cheer or make jokes at him. And he seemed
to enjoy the non-superior position of this kind. In our classroom, students sit
around the lovely instructor. We just love Siggy and Carrie who are always so nice,
loving, interesting, and easy to approach.
Other things, like the air, the food, the
greenness, American enthusiasm in their work, the big big and big space...may
come next. So, just wait......
I shall truly enjoy looking at my country through your own eyes. All of us become discouraged these days about the things that occur around us and we sometimes forget the magic that surrounds us as well. Thank you for reminding me!
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